Thursday, April 30, 2009

crazy week

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It was a crazy week for me but it was quite short--Thursday and Friday off,plus free weekend.Here comes the photos.Not in the mood writing commentary,I'm sick when I came back home.
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Sunday, April 26, 2009

what been up to

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Haven't updated my blog for more than a week but it doesn't feel that long.It was a productive week.I sat in the German language class,being a guest student there.I have set up my mind to make an effort to German.No matter how it will turn out,I just wanna enjoy the learning process.Other than that,I  went to a training organization not far from my uni.You're not gonna believe that I was there for the accountant training.I can't help laughing out loud because it sounds such a stupid idea now--anything that is related to Math is undoubtedly beyond me.
Anyway,I tried several different new things and had my life more figured out.Compared to most people,I have a fulfilling life.Yea,I can't deny that--I feel nurtured, loved and respected and not many people get that.I appreciate the life I have been given.However,I realised that,all that was missing was getting the most out of my life and I had got to push myself to experience more.There was a moment where I was worried that I would make some silly mistakes along the way.But as I told my friends,mistakes always happen and most of them end up being quite educational.

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Me and a bunch of classmates spent half of last Saturday on the museum.Technically,we were stuck there.We meant to hike on the Lian Hua Shan(莲花山) but it rained quite hard.So instead,we played uno at the lobby.



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This Saturday,I participated in a drama training.I saw it on douban and found it was in my neighbourhood.It was organised by some guys who had a great passion in drama.They were not students,one of them even was my mother's age.But they had young hearts and were great-hearted.I admire that and felt a bit shame secretly for having an old head on young shoulders.We didn't ask each other's careers but hobbies and avocations.It's always good to make some new friends and see new lives.I'm gonna do it again.


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Happened to see those kids doing morning exercise,So cute.(FYI,there's kindergarten in my uni.)
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Can anyone tell me what they are doing?I saw them doing it on several occasions at campus.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Sex and the UniverCity (2)

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On a recent Friday,one of my friends W came back from a class named "Human reproduction and eugenics/人类生殖与优生".She seemed to have a lot to talk about the fancy class,corresponding anxious of being judged.There,this is how she started,

"the teacher told us there was a girl vexed and almost bursted into tears when she just started to introduce something.That girl thought the teacher shouldn't have said anything dirty in class."

"She totally overreacted.That's what the class all about.What else was she expecting to hear?"said I.

"I don't know.But can I ask you a question?What does the words 'anal sex' mean?"asked she.

"You don't know?"

"No."

"But you're already 20."

"Does it matter?To begin with,the teacher told us a story that a couple who were both professors in college weren't able to have their kids yet they were quite heathy.However it turned out that they kept doing 'anal sex'.The teacher said she felt so sad about them,and about the sex education in China.But I don't know the word.Y(another girl who had the same class) doesn't know either. "she explained.

"Shame on them.Shame on YOU!!How can you,a twenty-year-old uni student,have no idea about it!"

After explaining to her,another girl showed up.I was gonna tell her what just happened and teased W about that.But once again,against my expectation.

"We can't have babies by anal sex?Really?Then why we can get pregnant by oral sex?"she asked.

"Unbelievable!How the hell can you get pregnant by oral sex?"

"Then why women use comdoms while giving a blow job?"aggrieved as she was.

"And that's why condoms have flavour......"

I couldn't believe we were having such a conversation,nor she would have put that question which literally drove me crazy--she already had the sex experience,yet didn't have the common sense about sex.I was completely speechless.That night was Friday night,so there was a rite of mass absence.The teacher didn't grumble but said "Those who are not here should have come and taken some instructions before they have those romance moments outside."--I could perceive the savour of anxiety of the youth rathen vexation of irreverence.

Who should be to blame?The parents,the government,the society or the young people themselves?After reading the news behind closed doors,I fell deeply into those thoughts.I attempted to discuss it with my fellows but those feedback gave me nothing but despondency--either they themselves didn't know those general sex knowledge or they sorta felt embarrassed and backed out of the discussion.I have to confess that I hesitated to write this post because I had to type some words or expressions which I'd heard of a lot but hardly said or written out.Whereas,I've retold my point for some times,so I'm so bold to organise my sentences and say it out loud,for the sake's of my peers.

I sheerly realised how importantly and how imperatively the sex education should be put on the agenda-it's quite a shame to say that tho.It shouldn't be an issue.Actually,it's not a problem to me as I know the whole thing since I was young.I reckon myself lucky because I didn't have to creeply pore over those sex thing,instead,I was instructed the proper education of adolescence.I had those kinds of class in my primary school and middle school.But,there was not any in my high school which is the most momentous three years to get the sex education for us youngster.As I never beat around the bush,then one thing led to the other,I'm regarded as some kind of sex mentor.In their eyes,those sex instructions aren't inclined to get before the very moment.But seriously,I feel anxious about people my age.They didn't get enough info for those romantic moments.

However,boys and girls are at different levels in this situation.As we all know,computer games are definitely a major part of boys life.But boys,who are hot-blooded,are hemmed by porn or whatnot.It's nasty at boys' dorm not only for the mess but also for the porn saved in the laptops.It's a rite that boys share downloaded videos,those "up to date" ones.Those boys are never hypocritical but they don't even bother confessing that.They even keep collections--one former classmate told me that he had 8G porn videos in his laptop.I suppose boys know women per se,or even know the skills,but they don't know how to protect either themselves or their girlfriends.

On girls' part,in their best mood,at their best time,they keep having those fancy dreams of relationship.Most of them are willing to leave their principles behind and go for the boys' rules.They don't know how to protect themselves or how to make things slow for girls' sake.I'm not being prudish but I wanna ask those girls,do you know what exactly are you doing?And are you sure?Yea,right!

Lack of knowledge ain't horrible,it is horrible that you take everything for granted.And that's why there're so many lasses being pregnant by accident as well as getting abortion secretly.China is now in an era of "sex blowout",people are quite indiscriminately open-minded to sex.It can be regarded as an improvement,but if we don't "say yes to the save sex",we're going to meet with another shameful sex plight.

[Continuation of Sex and the UniverCity (1) ]
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Monday, April 13, 2009

homemade pancake

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It was another Sunday which means I stayed at home;nay I had food at home sweet home.I' always fond of homemade food.It may not contain topping or whatnot,whereas you feel love in it.I had one of my favourite pancakes on this Sunday.The outer skin was crisp but the inside chewed soft.
Like usual,mom said it wasn't hard to made which I found the flour part a bit complicated.The whole process seemed easy though.

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I got a new laptop last weekend.Evidently,the fellow on the right side is the new one.(Fujitsu v.s Gateway)^^

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Fresh Eyes on Macau (3)

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Don't judge me.I'm not a nagging girl.It'll be the last post about my trip in Macau.^^Let's catch the last glimpse of it.
Chinese Element
Cultural Club/文化会馆
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Na Tcha Temple/哪吒古庙
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Hong Kung Temple/康公庙
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A-Ma Temple/妈阁庙
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The Tang Dynasty casino/唐城
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Kun Lam Statue/观音像

Humble Titbits
You can never get rid of Streets Ads,they're of different kinds tho.
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Toilets for pets.We need to import these to mainland.
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"Slumdog" of Macau.

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These ads are printed out rather than written by hand.Cannot tell which is better.
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It's not easy to find 10 cents coins or 20.
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Oh my goodness,gun's shop.
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Very interesting warning--"Cats have nine lives.How about you?"
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"Say yes to SAFE sex"--you know what,we need it in mainland too--please wait for my "Sex and the UniverCity (2)"

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Write up for Qing Ming.

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清明
杜 牧
清明时节雨纷纷,
路上行人欲断魂。
借问酒家何处有,
牧童遥指杏花村。

It should have rained yesterday!I don't mean that I like rainy days,but I found it a bit unbearable to have a sunny Qing Ming Jie.Anyway,it didn't bother me going stretching legs with mom.There's a monument in my neighbourhood,which is officially called Monument to the People's Heroes.It's sheerly a education base.When I got there,several floral baskets were already laid.It felt solemn.
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How could we Shenzhenese forget about Deng Xiaoping on one of those commemoration days?So there we were--on the top of Lian Hua Shan(Lotus Mountain) to look with reverence to the statue of Deng,which I'd done for heaps of times.I always found it regrettable that Deng passed away the before the day Hongkong came back(July 1st,1997).He must have been delighted.